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Some children have a hard time in school. Certain subjects might be particularly difficult, or your child may struggle with schoolwork in general. This can be scary for a family as you try to set your child on a path for academic and career success. Your child may struggle with study skills, or not knowing how to prepare for tests.
He may have trouble developing a plan to complete an assignment. She may get confused about due dates. You might find that your child has missing assignments or low grades. It also could be that your child lacks confidence in his or her own academic abilities and becomes stressed or embarrassed when asked to read or do a math problem.
Your child may cry during homework or simply refuse to do it. Your child might struggle in one particular academic subject. Your child may hate reading, for example. Unfortunately, if he or she struggles in reading, all other subjects will be impacted because reading is required for most academic tasks.
A myriad of potential problems may be getting in the way of your child’s academic success. In this article, we will address only a small number of major reasons, as follows: cognitive ability, study skills, emotional distress, and learning disabilities. Links are provided for more information on all of these potential problem areas.
Cognitive ability: Sometimes, a child does not learn as well because a part of his or her brain is not as adept as other parts of the brain. For example, children with lower Verbal Comprehension scores on an IQ test tend to struggle with reading and writing. Children with lower scores on the Non-Verbal or Spatial part of an IQ test tend to struggle in math, science, or engineering subjects. Finally, children with lower scores on Processing Speed or Working Memory tend to struggle in multiple academic areas and may have learning disabilities.
Study Skills: Children who struggle to study will have problems with many academic subjects and tasks. It is often the case that their Executive Functions  are impaired.
They may have trouble with Planning how to solve problems or to go about an assignment, Initiating tasks, Monitoring their own progress on assignments, or Metacognition (thinking about one’s thinking). The combination of these skills is all in the ‘upstairs brain’ , which is the part of the brain that is responsible for higher order problem solving, thinking, and planning.
The good news is that executive functions develop throughout childhood and into early adulthood; your child’s brain is still ‘working on it.’ More good news here is that higher order thinking skills can be taught [3-6].
Emotional Distress & Self-Esteem: learning problems tend to share a cyclical relationship with your child’s self-confidence. That is, school success tends to be a yardstick by which kids measure themselves. When they are struggling, their self-esteem takes a hit.
Children who do not feel good about themselves, tend to perform lower, and feel even worse about themselves as a result. See ‘what to do’ section below for ideas to address these issues. If the problem appears to be more related to poor motivation and effort, see Achievement article for ideas to increase your child’s motivation and academic self-efficacy.
Learning Problems: Although there are many types of learning disabilities, the primary areas psychologists and related professionals consider are reading, writing, and math. One potential sign that your child may have a learning disability is inconsistent performance.
Your child’s teacher may comment that ‘he could do this yesterday, and now he already forgot it.’ You may notice that your child had his spelling words down pat while studying but then still failed the test.
Another sign of a learning disability is that your child is bright but does not perform well. For example, a child with an extensive vocabulary who has a hard time with reading or writing would raise a red flag.
Finally, a child who works very slowly in any subject might have a learning disability (other reasons for slow pacing are possible, so this sign is not definite). Learning disabilities almost always require remediation and intervention. If you suspect your child has a learning disability, it is wise to consult with the school and request an evaluation.
Children who struggle with their learning tend to experience emotional symptoms or behavior problems.
Emotional symptoms: If you see a sudden drop in your child’s general happiness, motivation, or enjoyment of life, it is important to consider depression or significant emotional distress.
Behavior problems: If you see your child refusing tasks, having tantrums, or giving up easily, these behaviors are red flags. In these cases, you would be wise to consider an evaluation by a psychologist.
Evaluating emotional or behavioral problems: Although the school should be consulted for any learning problems, school psychologists are generally not licensed to diagnose clinical or psychiatric disorders.
They can be tremendously helpful in terms of helping your child with emotional symptoms, and can identify learning disabilities through a school evaluation process.*
However, a licensed psychologist, Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) or Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC), would be needed to make diagnostic decisions regarding emotional or behavioral disorders.
Learning disabilities: If you suspect your child may have a learning disability, it is important to talk to your child’s school. It may be that resources are available for intervention through the school’s Response to Intervention program.
Your child may require a 504 Plan or Individualized Education Program (IEP) for accommodations or services. The good news is that many people with learning disabilities learn how to live with these challenges and thrive. Although most learning disabilities are lifelong, the intensity of the struggle and challenge will tend to lessen significantly with the right kind of support and intervention.
If your child is struggling with a similar problem, not directly addressed in this section, see the list below for links to information about other related symptom areas.
Children who have significant problems in this area may have any of the following potential disabilities. *Note, this does not serve as a diagnosis in any way. See ‘Where to Go for Help’ section for professionals who can diagnose or provide a referral.
These professionals may recommend the following tests to assess your child’s learning:
 Kroncke, Willard, & Huckabee (2016). Assessment of autism spectrum disorder: Critical issues in clinical forensic and school settings. Springer, San Francisco.
 Anderman, Eric M. & Anderman, Lynley Hicks (2009). Classroom motivation.
 Dawson, Peg & Guare, Richard (2009). Smart but scattered: The revolutionary “executive skills” approach to helping kids reach their potential.
 Dawson, Peg & Guare, Richard (2010). Executive skills in children and adolescents: A practical guide to assessment and intervention, second edition.
 Reid, Robert, & Leinemann, Torri Ortiz & Hagaman, Jessica L. (2006). Strategy instruction for students with learning disabilities, second edition.
Learning & motivation books for kids:
Cook, Julia (2013). Thanks for the feedback, I think (Best me I can be!)
Deak, JoAnn & Ackerley, Sarah (2010). Your fantastic elastic brain stretch it, shape it.
Hamm, Mia (2006). Winners never quit!
Meiners, Cheri, J. (2003). Listen and learn.
McCumbee, S. (2014) The garden in my mind: Growing through positive choices.
McCumbee, S. (2014). The garden in my mind activity book.
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