Is your child:
Some children struggle to organize their thoughts. They often fail to make a plan of how to solve a problem or to complete a project. When asked, ‘how should we do this,’ your child does not know.
She may storm off in anger if you ask her, ‘why did you do it this way?’ Your child with these challenges may have trouble thinking through how to do things. She may not use strategies effectively.
Children who are adept at using strategies can tell you how they will solve a problem or complete an assignment. Children with poor skills in this area are easily overwhelmed. They do not know where to begin and what steps they will take to complete tasks.
The school day is often filled with frustration and failure. Teachers may comment that your child is ‘unmotivated,’ ‘doesn’t do his work’ or ‘never finishes anything.’
Children who struggle in this area do not use strategies effectively to think through a plan of attack to complete an assignment or solve a problem. Psychologists call this skill metacognition.
Put simply, metacognition is thinking about your thinking. Metacognition is the understanding and use of problem-solving strategies.
What is happening here is that your child may have poor executive functioning in the area of metacognition. The executive functions are like the central executive of the brain, the part that does the thinking, planning, judging, and organizing.
Children with challenges in metacognition often have trouble keeping track of how they are doing on a task. This skill is often clinically referred to as ‘self-monitoring.’ Monitoring is the ability to recognize when you are on track in your efforts.
Sequencing skills are also required for metacognition, as children have to know how to put steps and priorities in order. Children with good sequencing and metacognition can say, “First, I will chose my topic, then I will decide what to research, and then I can start writing my research paper.”
A final problem may be with working memory. Working memory is the ability to hold information in your mind while performing a mental operation on it. When using strategies, your child will have to be able to remember the second and third steps while performing the first step.
If you suspect your child may have trouble with metacognition, a school psychologist or clinical psychologist can conduct a test of executive functions (see list below). These tests can provide information about your child’s higher order problem-solving skills, including metacognition.
If your child indeed has poor metacognition, it will be important for him or her to learn to use strategies. Children who struggle to plan and organize the sequence of steps needed to solve a problem tend to require explicit teaching in strategy use.
One way to teach strategy use is to model strategies as a parent when you are solving problems. This technique is often referred to as a ‘think aloud.’ For example, “Okay, I want to bake a cake. First, I will get my recipe out. Then, I will pull out all the ingredients, measuring tools, and mixing bowl. Next, I will pre-heat the oven…” In this way, the child is seeing a problem-solving approach.
Another appropriate intervention is to talk to the teacher about providing your child with visual checklists and graphic organizers. Often, children can begin to develop their sequential processing skills through this type of ‘scaffolding’.
Finally, if your child’s skills are very low in terms of sequential processing, a consultation with the school may help. A 504 plan or IEP may be necessary. Both the 504 and the IEP can provide accommodations such as ‘extra prompting and process time’ and ‘provide visual checklists and graphic organizers.’
If your child is struggling with a similar problem, not directly addressed in this section, see the list below for links to information about other related symptom areas.
Children who have significant problems in this area may have any of the following potential disabilities. *Note, this does not serve as a diagnosis in any way. See ‘Where to Go for Help’ section for professionals who can diagnose or provide a referral.
If your child is struggling with this symptom to the point that it is getting in the way of his learning, relationships, or happiness, the following professionals could help; they may offer diagnosis, treatment, or both.
These professionals may recommend or administer the following tests for this symptom:
 Dawson, Peg & Guare, Richard (2009). Smart but scattered: The revolutionary “executive skills” approach to helping kids reach their potential.
 Reid, Robert, & Leinemann, Torri Ortiz & Hagaman, Jessica L. (2006). Strategy instruction for students with learning disabilities, second edition.
 Siegel, Daniel J. & Bryson, Tina Payne (2012). The whole brain child: 12 revolutionary strategies to nurture your child’s developing mind.
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