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Some children seem to have trouble remembering information and then doing something with it. They might have trouble with multi-step directions. They might struggle with solving problems if the steps aren’t written down. It may be that your child cannot hold a number of different facts in his head while simultaneously working through steps to solve a problem.
Some examples of challenges of this nature include:
When children hear information and manipulate it in their heads to use it right away, they are utilizing a memory process called working memory. A number of reasons can explain why challenges with working memory occur, and these will be discussed below in the clinical section.
A classic working memory task is the ‘old school’ challenge of recalling a phone number. Those of us who are now adults remember looking up a phone number in the phone book, holding the 7 digits in our heads and then dialing them on the rotary phone. This task is a classic example of working memory.
Children don’t need to do this task today, but they might have to remember math problems in their heads while they solve them or remember their schedule and figure out what time reading will be held. The time between hearing the information and either writing it down or actually carrying out the task relies on working memory.
Holding information in one’s head while performing some manipulation of the information is a simple way to think of working memory.
Working memory deficits are common in children, particularly those with slow processing speed or with attention deficits. It is important to keep in mind that needing to write things down does not necessarily mean a child has a clinically significant deficit.
If you see challenges with working memory impacting your child’s grades in school or decreasing his or her confidence, it is important to look into it further.
The ability to recall, manipulate and use information is called working memory. Working memory can be impacted by challenges with processing information or challenges with attention.
Research shows that working memory is highly related to attention and to executive functions that include our ability to plan and organize information.
The underlying problem when your child cannot remember information long enough to use it is likely to involve one of the following aspects: organization, planning, working memory challenges, processing speed and/or attention. Often individuals with significant problems in one or more of these areas may meet criteria for Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD). Attention and memory are closely related in this context.
Organization is a part of executive functioning [2, 3, 4]. Organization refers to the ability to keep track of a number of different things and to remain organized, not forgetting to complete a task.
Planning is also a part of executive functioning [2, 3, 4]. Planning refers to the ability to plan out a series and sequence of moves one step at a time. For example, “I need to get my math homework, my math book, my planner, and then make sure to write down my assignments. I need to put those all into my backpack.”
Working memory is “the shortest duration of information storage” and refers to the ability to hold things in memory for a short amount of time, perhaps 20 to 30 seconds, and to act on that information [1].
Working memory is an important part of our ability to inhibit a response and to sustain attention (Barkley in Kroncke et al. 2016). Intact working memory will allow a child to hold numbers in his head long enough to solve the math problem.
Processing speed is related to the speed at which an individual can take in and process information. A person with slow processing speed may have difficulty when information is provided quickly or when an environment is busy with a lot of extra information that the individual is also having to process, such as the hum and activity of a crowded classroom.
Attention means the ability to focus long enough to complete a task or activity without becoming distracted by other things going on around you. Sustained Attention includes the ability to focus on something even if the task is very boring and is without an immediate reward. If an activity is interesting to your child, such as playing Minecraft or reading a book about trains, paying attention will come more easily. If your child is reading a math textbook, unless he or she adores math, the task may quickly become boring. Without the ability to sustain attention, your child’s mind will wander [2, 3, 4].
If your child has challenges with working memory, the following strategies may help.
Use visuals. Try graphic organizers, outlines and checklists.
Write it down. Have your child write things down and work problems on paper instead of trying to solve them in his or her head. Some children who struggle with working memory may be very good at math when they can see the problem and have the details in front of them.
Use number models and pictures. Having the child write a number model and draw a picture of the problem can help a great deal.
Use to do lists and handwritten planners. Many people struggle to remember. Adults will often say, “I need to write that down in my planner, or I will forget.”
Know thyself. One important thing you can do as a parent is to teach your children to recognize their own needs, including their learning strengths and weaknesses. Many children, particularly those with ADHD or learning problems, may try to do work and solve problems in their heads. This is the path of least resistance but is not the best strategy.
Metacognition refers to being able to think about your own learning processes [5]. If your child struggles with metacognition, he or she will need to get used to writing things down and using scratch paper, rather than relying on his memory.
Set up for success. Make sure your child is studying at a desk, far away from the television or distracting siblings. Try working in 30 minute segments with a short stretch or snack break in between. Require your child to first working out problems on scratch paper before finalizing answers, and review work with an adult for accuracy and completion.
If your child is struggling with a similar problem, not directly addressed in this section, see the list below for links to information about other related symptom areas.
Children who have significant problems in this area may have any of the following potential disabilities. *Note, this information does not serve as a diagnosis in any way. See the ‘Where to Go for Help’ section for professionals who can diagnose or provide a referral.
If your child is struggling with this symptom to the point that it is getting in the way of his learning, relationships, or happiness, the following professionals could help; they may offer diagnosis, treatment, or both.
These professionals may recommend or administer the following tests for this symptom:
[1] Kroncke, Willard, & Huckabee (2016). Assessment of autism spectrum disorder: Critical issues in clinical forensic and school settings. Springer, San Francisco.
[2] Barkley, Russell A. (2013). Taking charge of ADHD, 3rd edition: The complete, authoritative guide for parents.
Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Taking-Charge-ADHD-Third-Authoritative/dp/1462507891/
[3] Dawson, Peg & Guare, Richard (2009). Smart but scattered: The revolutionary “executive skills” approach to helping kids reach their potential.
Amazon: http://www.amazon.com/Smart-but-Scattered-Revolutionary-Executive/dp/1593854455/
[4] Dawson, Peg & Guare, Richard (2010). Executive skills in children and adolescents: A practical guide to assessment and intervention, second edition. Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Executive-Skills-Children-Adolescents-Second/dp/1606235710?ie=UTF8&ref_=asap_bc
[5] Reid, Robert, & Leinemann, Torri Ortiz & Hagaman, Jessica L. (2006). Strategy instruction for students with learning disabilities, second edition.
Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Instruction-Disabilities-Special-Needs-Lienemann-Paperback/dp/B010WI4TBA/
For kids:
Esham, Barbara (2015). Mrs. Gorski, I think I have the wiggle fidgets. (New edition) (Adventures of everyday geniuses.)
Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Gorski-Fidgets-Adventures-Everyday-Geniuses/dp/1603368175/
Smith, Bryan & Griffen, Lisa M. (2016). What were you thinking? Learning to control your impulses (Executive function).
Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/What-Were-You-Thinking-Learning/dp/1934490962/
Cook, Julia (2006). My mouth is a volcano.
Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/My-Mouth-Volcano-Julia-Cook/dp/1931636850/
Stein, David Ezra (2011). Interrupting chicken.
Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Interrupting-Chicken-David-Ezra-Stein/dp/0763689033/
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